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Transit -- from buses and taxis all the way to airplanes -- can lead to downright hostile environments.I'm not likely to fit on most of the rides at the amusement park and the thought of eating a meal sitting in a rickety plastic chair puts me on high alert.I have experienced sexual assault and trauma in my life.A lot of fat women have -- the ACE scores study suggest that at least some cases of obesity are biologically related to childhood trauma -- but I don't need you to psychoanalyze me, to explain to me why I'm fat, or to try and "fix" me somehow. I got over guys who wanted to sleep with me but weren't willing to be seen in public with me a long time ago.Check your own issues with fatness before telling me to check mine.
And yes, I even enjoy going out for a good meal if you can manage not to make a big deal out of it.
Are you trying to prove to me that I'm "not that heavy"? I enjoy sex, I love meeting new people, and I think there is an incredible power in making intimate connections.
Or are you trying to prove to yourself how much of a manly man you are? I also enjoy boundaries and people who know what affirmative consent looks like.
I don't mind if you tend to date fat girls, or really even if you get some specific pleasure from being with a fat woman -- but I don't need that to be the first thing you tell me about yourself. " It's announced as if it's supposed to reassure me that they aren't going to take one look at me naked and run, I think? Or maybe it's meant to suggest some kink; like to let me know that he wants to feed me cakes and watch me weigh myself? If you care more about my weight than I do, we're going to have a problem. "You're not the kind of lazy, stupid, disgusting, [insert sizeist insult here] slob who I expect fat people to be," is not a compliment.
Dudes tend to assume that I haven't dated a lot in my life -- or the opposite, that I'm always up for casual sex because I'm desperate for attention.
Every time you do a search on the major search engines for Sydney dating services for singles online, you will find many of them showing.